Eating Disorder Recovery for Christian Moms | Faith, Triggers, Intuitive Eating, Comparison, Anorexia Nervosa, SAHM

34 | Why Restrictions Are Not About Food + What Restrictions Really Are

Holy crap this is a good one! While recording this episode I had my own emotional realization at the end. So get ready for a deep dive into your soul. Let's start with a truth bomb: restrictions are a symptom of unworthiness. And eating disorders are ways to maximize restrictions in life. Restrictions are sneaky by letting you believe you’re in control. But restrictions actually control you, friend. Awareness around restrictions opens up the doors to recovery. Grab your journal, take a sip of your iced latte and take a deep breath. This episode will open your eyes to how much you are restricting in your life. Oh yeah, you might want to grab the Kleenex box :)
 
 

33 | Get Unstuck By Adopting The Transformative Mentality of “Yes You Can!” with Erin Vogt

Do you feel like you can’t “do” mental health? Like it’s too complicated, too much work and seemingly impossible to achieve the positive changes you desire? In this episode, my friend and transformative health coach for moms over 40, Erin Vogt and I share an honest conversation about our mental health struggles and how it was the simplest solutions that got each of us unstuck. As Erin says in this episode “Basic stuff builds confidence because it stacks wins in your favor”. Erin shares actionable steps for you to seamlessly implement positive change into your life right now. Get stacking your wins and confidently approach mental health with a “yes you can” attitude.
 
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32 | What An Eating Disorder Can Inform You About God

If food rules and body comparisons consume your thoughts, it could be a sign God is trying to get your attention and teach you something. Join my 9 year old daughter, Ava, and me in this episode as we discuss the connection of our relationship with God to our relationship with our physical and mental health. Press play and inspire your faith by listening to one of God’s young children share her light and encouragement with you.

31 | How to Respond to Weight Loss Compliments When You’re Battling An Eating Disorder

If there ever was a hot topic, the discussion around people casually or rather obviously mentioning another’s weight is definitely one of them. In the awkward efforts of “small talk”, conversations are typically surface deep. This leaves our hair, clothes and the way we look open for discussion. Unless you dangle a “closed” sign on your neck, someone is bound to compliment your appearance. This can suck when you’re recovering from an eating disorder. In this episode I share how to respond to potentially triggering comments so your day isn’t flatlined by another’s “kindness”. You’ll also learn your personal responsibility (hint: your mindset needs an adjustment as well, friend) with how you respond and how to become a thought leader on the subject. Press play and let’s get started!
 
 

30 | What A 9 Year Old Can Teach You About Body Image

What do you think a 9 year old can teach you about body image? Recently I began a conversation with my daughter, fully intending to educate her about body acceptance and positivity but she ended up teaching me a lesson. I was so grateful for her honesty because it was through her voice and perception as a 9 year old little girl that I realized I had unresolved childhood emotions about my body. And ultimately, my daughter opened my eyes to how body image issues can form and how to heal those issues through revisiting childhood memories. Press play to learn what a 9 year old can teach you about body image.
 
 

29 | 7 Things to Say To Your Daughter When She Says, “I’m Fat.”

How do you help your daughter love her body when you have your own complicated relationship with your body image? Or maybe you’re trying to heal from an eating disorder while supporting your child in her body acceptance. The truth is, no one can trigger you like your own child. When your kid says something that calls out your own insecurities, how can you possibly remain emotionally available? What do you say when your mind goes blank? In this episode, I remove the guesswork for you by sharing 7 things you can tell your daughter in a delicate moment such as this. What you say now could be the life-giving difference in her self-love journey. So instead of only sweating and crying when she says, “I’m fat”, you’ll be capable of shifting your child’s perspective about her body through a powerful, connective conversation. Elevating both of you together.
 

28 | How To Lose An Eating Disorder By Rediscovering Yourself And Reclaiming Your Joy

Do you know yourself? If someone asked you what you do for fun, what would you say? Don’t feel bad if your response is a clueless stammer. I get it, I’ve been caught off guard, too. Consider this episode an opportunity to question, to be curious and inspire you to relentlessly pursue who God created you to be. When you allow yourself to live aligned with your God-given identity, joy is yours. As you seek and rediscover the pieces of you that have been lost, you begin living as an expression of God’s love and there’s no greater joy or sense of worthiness. Friend, you don’t have to do this alone. Give yourself some grace and ask Jesus to walk with you on your healing journey. In this episode, I’ll get your gears turning on how to start rediscovering yourself and equipping you to confidently answer the question, “what do you do for fun”.
 
 

27 | Blessings of an Eating Disorder

Too bold? If you think so, I recorded this especially for you. It’s the kick in the butt you need to shift your mindset around the ways you allow an eating disorder to influence your life. In this episode I share two lessons I’ve learned as a result of being tested by an eating disorder. Interestingly enough, by speaking two blessings out loud, two more blessings popped into my mind while recording. This is evidence that what we focus on expands. Friend, I know eating disorders suck the life out of you, but I also know if you get creative and look at your current life through a modified lens of gratitude, you’ll be surprised by what your trials have taught you. Press play. I'll see you there!
 
 

26 | How Inner Child Work Prepares You For Heaven

Have you ever been mad at God? Have you ever questioned the way God created you? When I was a young kid, I thought God messed up when He made me. I was mad at Him because He didn’t make me skinny like my friends. And now 30 years later I understand why God made me the way I am. In this episode, you’ll learn how a revisitation of your challenges in childhood can prepare you to be the person God created you to be. In the here and now and in life ever after.
 

25 | The Role Your Inner Child Plays In Your Healing Journey

Your most valuable player in your healing journey is sitting on the sidelines, avoiding your eye-contact. And only you can see her. Because she is you. A version of you as a young child, known as your inner child. In truth, you’ve been avoiding her, too. Maybe because you weren’t aware she was there. Or maybe because you know she knows things. Painful things you were hoping to forget. I need you to go talk to her. Now. Self-discovery and self-compassion awaits. Come with me and I’ll show you how in this episode.